
' But, due to its hostile nature, saying this depends on who the person is speaking to. Don’t even think about a day at an art museum, like when you were young and wild.Ž¥AŧHÇñðV=›]Ü/à*x A whole day’s break at the library or beach or even to sit in a car alone feels impossible. It’s been womb-full, arms-full, or email-full ever since.
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You haven’t had a full day to yourself since that first morning you took the pregnancy test. The doctors shrugged when they’d offered both diagnoses and said it was probably stress-related. Your grandfather had several heart attacks and your grandmother suffered from daily minor strokes during her last six months. “No” should be a much used word in your vocabulary. But now you have a five-year-old daughter, a husband who travels a few days each week, a needy dog, a whiny cat who hasn’t decided if she hates or loves you, and three ministry jobs that end up totaling way over the goal of 40 hours per week. Back then, there was a friend to hang out with and that paper to procrastinate on. I know I wouldn't ask that type of question unless I wanted something serious with a woman, but that's just me. In your 20s, there was always the prospect of sleep later. Answer (1 of 14): A guy who asks this question probably really likes you and wonders if there's a 'future' or if it's just a casual fling type relationship. Now you have to come to terms with the fact that in your season of life, each “yes” means a “no” to something else.Īctually, that was true all along, but you are just now really contending with it. You’ve heard the latest on how multi-tasking was a myth perpetuated by some to keep us spinning in our hamster wheels.

The strain it gives your eyes has definitely been the reason you have to get a new eyeglass prescription yearly.Ģ. You aren’t quite sure how you ended up with four email accounts that you monitor daily, but somehow you’ve landed here and now you have to switch back and forth. Not sure if you need to learn to say “no” more? Here are eight signs:ġ. We know we need to say “no” more, and we know the reasons, but in our daily scramble, we forget. To be known as someone who says “no” could limit our chances for advancement or for greater responsibilities, or so we’re told but learning to say “no” is important if we are truly to shine in the areas God has gifted and equipped us to lead. And as we get sucked into doing more, the word “no” becomes almost a curse word.

I work in fast food and see hundreds of people a day. Hearing you say I love you to them could change their day. You never know what people are going through. My point is this: Never stop believing in the powers of saying I love you.

As women, we put pressure on ourselves to succeed, to live faster and faster until the rat race swallows us up. Obviously, my few and your few of 'I love yous' are not one and the same (or they could be, you never know). We want to be effective in our ministries, but sometimes helping and leading morphs into a mania of doing that piles so much on us that we forget who we are, and how we are called to live differently.
